Butt plugs are one of the most popular ways to start exploring anal play – and one of the easiest. They are designed to be inserted and left in place, so you can relax and get used to the sensation at your own pace. This guide covers everything you need to know before choosing your first one.
1. Start small
Comfort always comes first. For a first plug, choose something small and slim with a gently tapered tip. A graduated set is ideal, because it lets you begin with the smallest size and move up only when you feel ready. Our 4-piece hollow plug set is designed exactly for this step-by-step progression.
2. A flared base is essential
This is the most important safety rule: only ever use a toy with a flared or suction cup base for anal play. The wide base stops the toy from slipping in too far. Every plug in our anal toys collection has a flared or suction cup base for safety and control.
3. Choose a body-safe material
Silicone is the best choice for most people. It is non-porous, smooth, easy to clean and comfortable against the skin. Firmer silicone gives more control on insertion, while softer silicone feels more forgiving. Read our guide to sex toy materials for a full comparison.
4. Use plenty of lubricant
The body does not produce its own lubrication for anal play, so lube is not optional. Use a generous amount of water-based lubricant, especially with silicone toys, and reapply whenever you need to. More lube means more comfort.
5. Relax and go slowly
Take your time, breathe deeply and stay relaxed. Start with gentle pressure and never force anything. If something feels uncomfortable or painful, stop. Anal play should always feel good – there is no rush.
6. Wearable plugs and next steps
Once you are comfortable, you might enjoy a plug designed for longer wear, such as our wearable fantasy silicone plug, or a larger textured option like the large suction cup plug for experienced users. Many people also explore prostate massagers, including remote control models for hands-free play.
7. Keep it clean
Wash your plug before and after every use with warm water and mild, unscented soap or a dedicated toy cleaner, and let it dry fully before storing. Never move a toy from anal to vaginal use without washing it first. Our cleaning and storage guide explains exactly how.
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