Remote Control Vibrators: A Guide for Couples

Remote control vibrators add a playful new dimension to intimacy. Instead of holding the toy, you or your partner control the vibrations with a small wireless remote – perfect for hands-free solo play or for handing over control to someone else. Here is everything you need to know.

How do remote control vibrators work?

The vibrator and a small wireless remote are paired together. The remote lets you switch the toy on and off, change vibration modes and adjust intensity without touching the toy itself. That frees your hands and makes it easy to share control with a partner.

Types of remote control vibrator

Rabbit vibrators

A remote control rabbit vibrator offers dual stimulation – internal and external at the same time – with the freedom of a remote. It is ideal if you already enjoy rabbit-style toys. Our guide to rabbit, G-spot and wand vibrators explains the differences.

Love eggs

A wireless love egg is small, smooth and discreet. It is one of the easiest ways to try remote play and a great choice for couples who want to add a little surprise.

Prostate massagers

Remote control is not only for vibrators. Our remote control prostate massager offers hands-free stimulation with a curved shape and a wide, stable base. New to this? Read our prostate massagers for beginners guide.

Ideas for couples

  • Hand over the remote: let your partner decide when and how intensely the toy vibrates.
  • Take turns: swap control so you both enjoy giving and receiving.
  • Talk first: agree on what you are both comfortable with and use a simple word to pause at any time.

What to look for

  • Body-safe silicone that is smooth and easy to clean
  • Multiple vibration modes and adjustable intensity
  • A quiet motor for discretion
  • A comfortable, ergonomic shape

Care and safety

Use a water-based lubricant, wash your toy before and after every use and store it with the remote somewhere clean and dry. Our cleaning and storage guide explains how.

Browse our vibrators

Explore our full range of vibrators, including remote control rabbit vibrators and love eggs, delivered across the UK in plain, discreet packaging.