Prostate massagers have become one of the most popular toys for people with a prostate who want to explore new sensations. If you are curious but not sure where to start, this guide covers the basics in plain language.
What is a prostate massager?
A prostate massager is a curved toy designed to reach the prostate, a small gland located a few inches inside the body, towards the front. Many people find gentle pressure there very pleasurable. The curve of the toy does the work of finding the right spot, so you can focus on relaxing.
What to look for in your first massager
- A gentle curve: designed to angle towards the prostate naturally.
- A flared or wide base: essential for safety – it stops the toy from going in too far.
- Body-safe silicone: smooth, non-porous and easy to clean.
- A moderate size: slim is best when you are starting out.
Our Prostate Massager Pro has a curved, textured shaft and a wide base for control, while the remote control prostate massager adds wireless control for hands-free play.
How to get started
- Relax: choose a time when you are not rushed and feel comfortable.
- Use plenty of lube: a generous amount of water-based lubricant is essential.
- Go slowly: insert gently and let your body adjust. Never force anything.
- Experiment with position: lying on your side or back often makes things easier.
- Listen to your body: if something hurts, stop.
If you are completely new to anal play, it can help to start with a small plug first. Our butt plugs for beginners guide explains how.
Vibrating or non-vibrating?
Many prostate massagers include vibration, which adds extra sensation. Remote control models let you, or a partner, change the mode without reaching for the toy. For more ideas, read our remote control vibrators guide.
Cleaning and care
Wash your massager before and after every use with warm water and mild, unscented soap or a toy cleaner, and let it dry fully. See our cleaning and storage guide for details.
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